I want to pour my heart out about my recent trip to Prince Edward Island with my amazing boyfriend.
It was an unforgettable experience, and I feel so lucky to have him in my life.
Throughout the entire journey, he took charge of everything, from online check-ins to meticulously planning the itinerary, and even driving us around for five whole days.
I am truly grateful for his efforts and how he took such good care of me.
I could see the love and adoration in his eyes, and it warmed my heart to know how much he cared about me.
Even during our quiet moments together, such as when we watched episodes of Seinfeld or explored funny videos on YouTube, his compliments continued to make me feel cherished and loved.
During our trip, my mind wandered to a few thoughts that have been on my mind lately...
One of them is the sad realization that the term "trad wife" has emerged as a way to emphasize the traditional role of a wife in taking care of the family and her husband.
I believe that being a wife should inherently involve nurturing and supporting the family unit.
However, it's disheartening to witness the need for a term or trend to remind people of the original meaning of a "wife."
It should be a natural and unconditional part of the commitment we make to our loved ones.
Sigh....
Another recurring question in my mind is whether it's possible to balance my teaching career while also being fully present in taking care of my future family.
It's something I often ponder, as I am passionate about both aspects of my life.
However, deep down, I know that maintaining excellence in both "jobs" simultaneously would be incredibly challenging.
Some questions: How does a trad wife ensure intellectual growth and prevent feelings of isolation or boredom that may arise from dedicating much of her time to domestic duties? (My mom has showed and proved me it is a 24-7 job that will never end)...
Depending on the circumstances, a trad wife may face challenges related to financial dependence on the husband. This can raise questions about individual autonomy and the ability to make independent financial decisions.
Sacrifices would need to be made, and it would be a constant juggling act.
While it may seem impossible to excel at both, I remain hopeful that with open communication and support from my partner, we can find a balance that allows me to pursue my passion for teaching while nurturing our family.
